Ok, I’ll jump in today. The whole subject of where have all the men gone has been going around for a while now. Today Maggie’s Farm linked to this American Thinker column on the subject.
Here Janice Shaw Crouse writes of 3 major problems:
1- there are fewer marriages
2 – men lag women in schools
3 – men have lost their social identity
Here are her solutions
1 – ostracize the man boys of fame (ie Sheen)
2 – make certain school teachers know the difference between girls and boys and can teach to boys as well as girls.
Her conclusion:
We will not succeed in making a new start until we stamp out the myth that young women can do just as well without a man. Unless we change that thinking, our society will be the poorer. As long as the male half of the population is disparaged, denigrated, and infantilized, they will lack the motivation to “man up” and become responsible and accomplished men.
LOL.
Got that? Here are some reasoned ideas, but in the end its up to us gals to make menfolk feel needed.
I am all for making certain friends and loved ones know they are needed in various ways – but as a society, women do not need men to earn money or to take out the trash or to change a tire. Just as men do not need women to cook and clean for them.
It’s a new society and people are figuring out their places. The beauty of the whole thing is that there is now a vast, vast array of places for people to be.
My little brother is a fantastic grown up married man and father. Brad Pitt – is definitely a devoted father and partner – though unmarried. Charlie Sheen is whacked. There may well be a marked increase in man boys and I am all for changing schools so that boys aren’t required to act like girls. At the same time, having the freedom to be who we want to be – whether that be single and playing our whole lives (George Clooney – seems fine to me) or settling down to family gets to be a choice now and not an obligation for living in polite society.
In a lot of the animal kingdom it’s only the top tier that get to mate and spread genes. Maybe it’s not so wrong for us freewheeling types to just keep on freewheeling it.
(ps – This is a Friday topic not to be taken too seriously. I know tons of reasons why men act like boys and much of it includes being screwed over by women.
Yes – we could all get together and change society so that men are men and women are girls but I would rather keep the freedom myself.)
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